Friendly reminder to anything with a penis:
Without “affirmative consent,” it was rape. If you did “get her yes” only she now regrets having given it, it was rape.
Consent can be revoked if the sex didn’t go according to her expectations, or if she suffers from any form of mental illness (e.g., bipolar disorder) which she later determines to have affected her judgement.
That SHE was the one who put YOUR schroeder in her mouth has no bearing on whether or not you are a rapist.
And you most definitely are.